As a mother, taking time for yourself can feel both liberating and guilt-inducing. Next week, I’m embarking on a special journey – my first solo break since becoming a mum. While the mum guilt is real, I’m embracing this opportunity for creative, emotional, mental and physical rejuvenation.

The centre piece of my retreat will be diving back into Lino printing, I’ve always found it both challenging and deeply satisfying. I’m looking forward to setting up my workspace, sketching designs, and losing myself in the meditative process of carving and printing.

To balance the creative work, I’ve promised myself daily walks along the beach. There’s nothing quite like the sound of waves and the feel of sand between your toes to clear your mind and restore your spirit. Although it’s super cold and windy at the moment. I’m not sure how long these walks will be!

While I know my little ones are in great hands, that twinge of guilt is still there. But I’m reminding myself that taking time to recharge isn’t selfish – it’s necessary. A refreshed, creatively fulfilled mum is a better mum, and I’m looking forward to sharing my creative adventures with my children when I return.

This break feels like a gift to myself – a chance to reconnect with my artistic side while creating space for new ideas and inspiration to flourish. Sometimes, stepping away briefly helps us step up as better parents in the long run.

Many people can’t believe I’m going away, by myself for my 40th. I have no idea why I haven’t done it sooner!

Wishing you endless inspiration and flourishing creativity in your art and garden endeavors. Happy creating!

The beach awaits.

One response to “A Creative Retreat for this Burnt out Mum”

  1. Gypsie-Ami Offenbacher-Ferris Avatar
    Gypsie-Ami Offenbacher-Ferris

    This was something I never did as a mother, and wish I could have. However, my children’s father was much too busy to ever try to take care of them without me and truthfully, would not have had a clue what to do (he never even changed a single diaper!). Besides all of that, he as well as his family had me convinced that “good mothers” never left their children for even a moment …. I couldn’t even take a bath alone without kids coming, going, needing something or just attached to my hip. I think having me time would have definitely saved the marriage and in the end, prevented “family burnout.” Thank you for writing and posting this!! 😊

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